tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8516479154752473667.post7174624514059410667..comments2024-02-23T03:28:05.137-05:00Comments on Musings in the Dark: HardAmaya Radjanihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06018534467097974996noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8516479154752473667.post-84938023655821410932012-04-10T16:47:58.023-04:002012-04-10T16:47:58.023-04:00Thank you, Jellybean14! So glad you de-lurked. W...Thank you, Jellybean14! So glad you de-lurked. Welcome to the Dark! <br /><br />Yes indeed, I will wait. Sistahs sell themselves short all the time looking to be boo'ed up just for the sake of having someone in their lives, instead of waiting for someone who meets them at their level. I can't be bothered with bullshit. I don't want a love I can live with; I'd much rather have a love I can't live without.Amaya Radjanihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06018534467097974996noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8516479154752473667.post-79700357767041974212012-04-10T03:49:49.964-04:002012-04-10T03:49:49.964-04:00Hiya Amaya,
Longtime lurker and fan.
This post com...Hiya Amaya,<br />Longtime lurker and fan.<br />This post completely registered with me too. i am exactly the same. not willing to settle for anything less than the thermostat exploding! I too have had 2 great longterm relationships that just fizzled out because the men couldn't match my fire and and passion in and out of the bedroom. I need intelligence and passion. And the big thing that word you mentioned in your post- reciprocity. it is something that is all too lacking for black women in relationships! we deserve the best and I'm prepared to keep waiting until I feel it! xxxxx<br />You are amazing <3 <3Jellybean14https://www.blogger.com/profile/05073532434360334677noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8516479154752473667.post-27496251008544027152012-04-06T14:00:03.252-04:002012-04-06T14:00:03.252-04:00Hey! Thanks so much; you are welcome to come hang...Hey! Thanks so much; you are welcome to come hang out in the Dark any time you please! I appreciate the support and knowing that I'm not alone in my weirdness (though there isn't a damn thing wrong or weird with knowing who you are). <br /><br />I think if more women took the time to understand their natures, it would make them think twice about the kinds of relationships they enter. Some women need safe men, but I'm not one of them.<br /><br /><i>I love men who are passionate, sexual and creative. I want a man that inspires. A man that I can create with. Someone who fuckin' gets it.</i><br /><br />This right here is EXACTLY WHAT I MEAN!!!! Trust and believe, I'm willing to wait for that.Amaya Radjanihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06018534467097974996noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8516479154752473667.post-25986129611095436582012-04-05T23:00:54.844-04:002012-04-05T23:00:54.844-04:00Amaya this post really spoke to me. I was married ...Amaya this post really spoke to me. I was married to a 'lukewarm' man, and it was a complete disaster. I felt like I was drowning in that marriage. He was 'safe' and at the time I thought that was what I wanted.<br /><br />I love men who are passionate, sexual and creative. I want a man that inspires. A man that I can create with. Someone who fuckin' gets it.<br /><br />I love your blog. I could live here.Nicolehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02095215651149392946noreply@blogger.com