tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8516479154752473667.post5434755662191231209..comments2024-02-23T03:28:05.137-05:00Comments on Musings in the Dark: I Guess I’m Just Mean Then…Amaya Radjanihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06018534467097974996noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8516479154752473667.post-85865230918216235782012-04-22T13:02:48.215-04:002012-04-22T13:02:48.215-04:00Why do some people believe that sex is all they ne...Why do some people believe that sex is all they need to bring to the table. I say 'some people' because there are also women out there who seem to think they have a vagina crafted by the gods. >_> Nowadays, you can literally buy dick and vagina without a live and useless human being attached, so why should anyone put up with anyone solely for sex?Leo Princessnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8516479154752473667.post-2771942589912197712012-04-21T03:54:33.716-04:002012-04-21T03:54:33.716-04:00I admit that back in the day, when I say hello to ...I admit that back in the day, when I say hello to a woman, and she responded with a hint of an attitude or doesn't respond at all, I would feel disrespected. But looking back along with some reading and listening, I realize that it's harder for women than men care to realize. <br /><br />It's part of the matrix of masculinity that can take away a man's sense of respect and esteem. Some men fill that void with sex, and if they can't get it, it's the woman's fault. It makes no sense, but one thing privilege has taught me is that privilege presents reason.Brotha Wolfhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11757828851843699053noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8516479154752473667.post-89816425960322465032012-04-18T12:38:04.770-04:002012-04-18T12:38:04.770-04:00Rashida>>I don't bother to give a moment...Rashida>>I don't bother to give a moments thought on an emotionally immature male such as that.<br /><br />Period.<br /><br />I guess I am being mean.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8516479154752473667.post-9606371235426018282012-04-14T19:27:46.291-04:002012-04-14T19:27:46.291-04:00Yes, he is. I have dealt with this same shit from...Yes, he is. I have dealt with this same shit from brothas in the past.<br /><br /><i>Sometimes I wonder if I am being too hard on them.</i><br /><br />Fuck, no. Settling won't do anything except make your life miserable. I don't have to tell you that; you know it already.<br /><br />*raises a glass of Moscato* Cheers, baby. I'm lovin' life right now. Happy being the villain.<br /><br />Thanks so much! I'm so glad you're enjoying them. It will probably be a long time before I write any more fanfic.Amaya Radjanihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06018534467097974996noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8516479154752473667.post-89428788542364432772012-04-13T09:37:20.464-04:002012-04-13T09:37:20.464-04:00Mark is a damn fool. Is he black by any chance? I ...Mark is a damn fool. Is he black by any chance? I don’t know if men are like this no matter what their race is or not, but I get this shit from black men all the damn time. I am Antiguan, so my interactions have 99.99% of the time been with black men, that is why I was asking. It fascinates me to no end how quick they are to call you a WHORE based on the simple fact that hell will freeze over a million times first, before you give them the time of day. Sad, so sad. <br /><br />I admit that I have been a fool in the past. But I have learned my lesson very well. I am just like you now Amaya. I know exactly what I want, so when it comes to men; they don’t move my thermostat. Sometimes I wonder if I am being too hard on them. But then I remember that it was lowering my standards and having low expectations is what got me hurt in the first place. <br /><br />So cheers to us Amaya and the one that will move our thermostat. <br /><br />A little side note: I have been reading your fanfics and they are so hot girl.Shana Jahsinta Waltershttp://www.jahsinta.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8516479154752473667.post-82333254527444835342012-04-11T22:28:50.721-04:002012-04-11T22:28:50.721-04:00A semi-hard dick (and I'm being generous here)...A semi-hard dick (and I'm being generous here) is what he thinks I need, and that's exactly what my brother thinks he thinks. When truth be told, Mark really doesn't have a fucking clue as to how to go about getting a woman like me because it requires an intensive period of self-examination and dedication to self-improvement. He's too lazy to do that. <br /><br />Back to the sex: I doubt he could please me even if I drew him a road map to my orgasm. For me to even get remotely horny, I gotta know the mortgage is paid, as is my car note and the utilities, and I'd like for there to be at least some turkey and cheese in the fridge to make a sandwich later. Mark can't provide me <i>that</i> kind of protection, which makes anything between us impossible. It's not dick I need. It's security. Am I safe with you? No? Then I can't be with you. It's as simple as <i>that</i>.<br /><br />Men who think like Mark believe that all women like us <i>really need</i> is dick good enough to make us overlook that fucking laundry list of unacceptable attributes and move his ass into our homes. That just because we're alone means we're lonely and we'll lower our standards for the first man who makes a pass at us. Even if he can't provide us a secure existence.<br /><br />Um, no. You can head to Starship or the Hustler Playhouse and find a better, harder dick that won't cause you pain, stress or frustration later. Or talk back. Mark's had marginal success with women in the past, women who don't necessarily have my standards, but those relationships haven't worked out because they have to pull his weight. His last girl, his fiancee, broke up with him because she got tired of taking care of him. She knew that going in, but she was lonely and desperate. So she has to own that. Me? I know better. Hell with that shit.<br /><br />I need to address the security issue in a post. Thanks Ankh!Amaya Radjanihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06018534467097974996noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8516479154752473667.post-27924116575886421102012-04-11T21:53:25.329-04:002012-04-11T21:53:25.329-04:00Exactly what does "Mark" think he can of...Exactly what does "Mark" think he can offer you? Dick? Because that's all I hear when men talk that "give her what she needs" shit.<br /><br />You don't need a calculator do the math on this one. 1) You have your own house, he lives at his parents'. 2) You're an educated professional, he's broke.<br /><br />Mm-hm. That is some infuriating shit right there. <b>What does he really think he can do for you?</b>Alliyah Gallowshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11043902720307040762noreply@blogger.com